That’s really all I have to say on that matter. You can waste your life trying to be someone else, or trying to get someone’s approval. I had to go through some intense training recently called PATHWAYS to be honest enough with myself, and real enough with myself to just be myself. Do what you gotta do to be you, because you gotta be you. You can’t be anyone else and really live. You’ll just have a borrowed life. A counterfeit. So do what you gotta do, but be you. After all, you are the one God loves. Sure he loves all the other people too. But he loves you just for you.
Psalm 139:23-24 says
“Search me, God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.”
Search yourself. Ask God to search you. And then be you. Go get what is yours. You.
Song For Today: Search My Heart.